Friendships & Connection

The Fact-Checker

For your guide

Choose your view

Explorer shows the broad version of the experience, without narrowing it to one neurotype.

Choose your view

Changing this updates how BirdStory explains experiences in your guide.

What do these views mean?

These views change the wording and examples BirdStory shows. They are not a diagnosis.

  • Explorer: A broad starting view for recognising patterns without choosing one neurotype.
  • ADHD: Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. Includes what some people still call ADD.
  • Autism: Autism spectrum. This view focuses on autistic patterns, sensory and social processing, predictability, and overwhelm.
  • AuDHD: A common shorthand for people who are both autistic and ADHD, or who strongly relate to both sets of patterns.
  • HSP: Highly Sensitive Person. Not a diagnosis, but a useful trait lens for sensitivity, depth of processing, and emotional or environmental intensity.

Pick the view that makes the experiences feel most recognisable.

Do you feel a sense of internal friction or discomfort when you hear a small factual error and have to let it go uncorrected?

Help someone understand this

A small inaccuracy can catch in your attention until it is corrected. Even when the larger point is clear, the wrong date, name or detail feels too important to let pass.

  • interrupting a story to correct which year it happened
  • looking up a minor claim during a casual conversation
  • clarifying the exact name of a bird when the speaker only meant 'something like that'
  • returning to a finished discussion because one number was slightly wrong

Looks vs reality

The same Experience can look very different from the outside than it feels on the inside.

How it gets read

Trying to show off how smart you are.

What’s actually happening

My brain caught a bug in the data and I feel a genuine need to fix it.

How it gets read

Wanting to start an argument or be confrontational.

What’s actually happening

Just wanting everyone to be on the same page with the correct information.

How it gets read

Nitpicking about something that doesn't matter.

What’s actually happening

An internal alarm is blaring 'INACCURATE!' and it's physically uncomfortable to ignore.

How it gets read

Disrespecting the person telling the story.

What’s actually happening

Trying to make sure the story's foundation is solid so I can follow it properly.

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