Complicated words can be ready exactly when you need them, while an ordinary household word remains stubbornly out of reach. You know what the thing is, can describe it perfectly, and still can't retrieve its name.
- using 'ambivalent' without hesitation and then asking for the cold food cupboard
- calling scissors 'the cutting things' halfway through an articulate explanation
- describing a colander in detail because the word itself has vanished
- remembering a technical term while forgetting what to call the remote
Looks vs reality
The same Experience can look very different from the outside than it feels on the inside.
Trying to sound smart or being pretentious.
My brain's search engine is giving me academic papers when I just searched for 'ketchup'.
Being difficult or playing dumb for attention.
This is genuinely mortifying and I feel completely stuck.
Not listening or paying attention.
The word is right on the tip of my tongue and it's creating so much internal noise I can't think of anything else.
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