Focus & Brain Fog

The ‘Wait, What?’ Loop

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Explorer shows the broad version of the experience, without narrowing it to one neurotype.

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What do these views mean?

These views change the wording and examples BirdStory shows. They are not a diagnosis.

  • Explorer: A broad starting view for recognising patterns without choosing one neurotype.
  • ADHD: Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. Includes what some people still call ADD.
  • Autism: Autism spectrum. This view focuses on autistic patterns, sensory and social processing, predictability, and overwhelm.
  • AuDHD: A common shorthand for people who are both autistic and ADHD, or who strongly relate to both sets of patterns.
  • HSP: Highly Sensitive Person. Not a diagnosis, but a useful trait lens for sensitivity, depth of processing, and emotional or environmental intensity.

Pick the view that makes the experiences feel most recognisable.

Do you often have to ask someone to repeat themselves, not because you misheard, but because you realize your brain wasn't 'recording' at all?

Help someone understand this

You hear the sound of the voice, but the words never settle into meaning. A moment later there is only the knowledge that something was said and no usable trace of what it was.

  • saying 'sorry, what?' after someone speaks directly beside you
  • watching a colleague's mouth move while an internal argument keeps playing
  • missing your name in a conversation because a song is looping in your head
  • needing a question repeated once your thoughts finally go quiet

Looks vs reality

The same Experience can look very different from the outside than it feels on the inside.

How it gets read

They're ignoring me on purpose.

What’s actually happening

My internal radio station is too loud and I literally did not register that sound was happening.

How it gets read

They obviously don't care about this.

What’s actually happening

My brain is still buffering the last sentence you said and I'm waiting for it to load.

How it gets read

Are they slow? It was a simple question.

What’s actually happening

My auditory processor just crashed. Please wait a moment while the system reboots.

How it gets read

Zoned out again. Typical.

What’s actually happening

A single word you said just launched a full-length feature film in my mind. I'll be back in a minute.

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